Tuesday, September 30, 2014
ALL of my kids were happy all day long. The laughter and smiles were so welcome, that I sat basking in the happiness, trying to soak up every ounce because I never know when the tides will change.
We had a track meet yesterday. Usually, when planning for a sports outing I have to cover EVERY possible base, just in case things turn bad and I need back up plan A, B or C. Yesterday I planned for the worst and it worked out for the best :). Those are rare moments around here. Someone must have answered my prayers.
I am happy about things today, and these good times give me the energy to see past the recent gray skies, at the ray of sunshine poking its head out.
Being a parent of a special needs child can seem like a long and winding road. Today though, I am only looking at my feet, taking one step at a time. It is so much more manageable that way.
Monday, September 29, 2014
I am coming off of a weekend of utter exhaustion. Maddy literally did not want to do ANYTHING except play in our front yard on her bike.....that means EVERYTHING else was not wanted. She didn't want to come inside to eat, go to the bathroom, wash her face, relax, go to bed....NOTHING else was acceptable. When ever I tried to redirect her onto a task that was necessary she would scream and have a meltdown. It was exhausting....because that meant either fight with her to do what I felt needed to get done, or give in for the sake of argument.
She won.....I didn't have the strength to argue this weekend.
I even did my laundry in the garage.....I washed, folded and piled high the 25 loads of laundry (not really, but it felt like 25 loads :). I am not at all embarrassed that I had to fold my underwear out in the open....
I am sure my neighbors love us.....between the screaming sessions and me flashing my skivvies....whats not to love? I can honestly say that we add excitement and drama to our neighborhood. All they need is a chair and some popcorn to be entertained.
The one time I had to bring my girl into the house so that I could go to the bathroom (because she must be supervised at all times...and what was I thinking stopping the playtime to go pee).....she had a huge meltdown in her room that consisted of making herself throw up, which she only does to prove to me that SHE is the boss.....(and my boss says no more potty breaks while on duty, should I report her to the labor board?)
I know you are probably thinking that I should put my foot down and take control of my house, but the cold hard truth is that sometimes.....I must pick my battles and this weekend wasn't one of them.
So, now it is Monday. I will pick up the pieces and start the week with hope for a great week and gratitude that everyone woke up happy.
Posted by Cherishing Mommy at 9:31 AM